with life you have to get used to change. as soon as you get used to something, the situation changes. i was single, then i got married. i had to get used to living with a man who was different than me. he had different ideas on how to do things. then we were expecting. i went to work. i had a baby etc.... my husband went to school as soon as i got used to his schedule, it was another semester. i got used to one baby then i was expecting, i got used to two babies, i went to work. then another pregnancy, another baby. i don't remember how i managed in the past, with only 2 kids. why am i overwhelmed? i was already in this situation. i have to figure out a way to make this work.